6 WAYS TO OVERCOME HEARTBREAK IN RELATIONSHIP
1. Allow Yourself to Grieve (Feel the Pain)
2 Corinthians 7:10 For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.
Don’t rush yourself or allowed anyone to pull you through the grieving process. When you give yourself permission to feel everything, you are setting the stage to moving on in a healthy productive way.
2. Surround Yourself With Good People i.e Those You Feel Loved In Their Presence And Distance Yourself From Those Who Aren’t Supportive.
Most often when heartbreak occur in relationship is as though the whole world is on you. A thousand thought flash through your mind per seconds, you experience Lost of appetite for food, you can’t pray, you can’t even play worship songs, your heart beat faster, sorrow and regrets becomes closer to you than your flesh, you begin to hear many voices at the same time and your mind is clouded with different thoughts. All you want is just to be alone.
In all these that happen during the breakup season, you need someone a friend who will remind you of how great God’s plan for your glorious future is. You need a supportive system.
Now, if you have not yet experience it, don’t pray to experience breakup in relationship because the first fear that set in is “WILL I EVER FOUND SOMEONE AGAIN WHO WILL NOT TREAT ME IN THIS SAME MANNER”
Therefore, surrounding yourself with good people will help to overcome.
Also remember that relationship is just a fraction of your life, you have a glorious destiny in Christ Jesus to fulfill.
3. Refocus Your Attention on the Reason for Your Existence “PURPOSE”.
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
It's of great necessity that a believer know his or her purpose and begin working in it before going into relationship.
Give yourself to your purpose, hobby and interest after few weeks or months of heartbreak.
I will like you to understand that, in order for you to be able to move on smoothly, this is highly require that; you forgive him or her i.e let go of the hurt from your heart afterwards “delete the pictures you and your ex snapped and begin to clear off his or her thought from your mind. Any scene that will make you to remember him or her or the nice date you guys had separate such information from your life.
Put a desist to communication either vial calls or text messages because viewing those pictures has capacity to keep refreshing the pain and grieve.
4. Share Your Intimate Life Only with Holy Spirit and Avoid Going into Relationship in That same Season.
Until your doubt and fear is clear don’t enter into relationship. Restore your heart first.
Now, at this stage begin to play some intimate worship songs and messages it will help to relieve you off your grieved and pain.
5. Analyze the Part You Played In the Breakdown of the Relationship
Proverbs 16:2 All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes; but the LORD weigheth the spirits.
At this stage you will have some hope again to live a better life. And it’s always advisable for us to learn from our mistakes and never to neglect them.
No body comes out of a failed relationship entire guilt free. It is important you handle yourself with care during the month’s following a split. At some point, it’s worth assessing the part you played in the relationship breakdown. It may be hard to look within but doing so will help you avoid recreating or repeating the same dynamic in your next relationship.
Taking responsibility for your part will help you get heal in time and move forward with more intention and self-awareness or esteem.
6. Get Excited About the Future
Philippians 4:4 REJOICE in the Lord always: and again I say, REJOICE.
A year from now, where do you want to be? Most importantly, what do you want to become? Asking yourself these questions will help you map out a happier and healthier future for yourself.
CONCLUSION
Understand that, it is necessary you date someone who is born again, God fearing, purpose driven and submissive to a higher authority, i.e (been accountable to someone). You may likely escape heartbreak in relationship if this qualities are in place in the life of your life partner.
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A. I. Friday
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